Sunday, August 26, 2012

Behind the beautiful forevers -Katherine Boo



The well deserved winner of the Pulitzer prize, this account of non-fiction written by Katherine Boo unfolds the story of a slum named Annawadi. Situated in the vicinity of the Sahara International Airport, it has long been an eyesore to the promoters of globalization. Riding on the winds of uncertainty, Annawadi still hangs on to hope as its refuge.

Coming back to the book, which won the accolades of the literary elite, it captures in its pages the lives of the Annawadians and baggage of hopes they carry on their shoulders(in direct proportion with baggage of garbage carried). It is an account of people whose necessities boil down to basics, who literally live behind the beautiful forevers.

The first thing that caught me about the book was its title. Behind the walls painted beautiful forevers, life still flourishes under the casted dark shadows. Now lets go on with lightening streaks in the account.

Resilience is the first thing you will notice as you get to know the characters. It was the nature of the people. Almost all the people whose stories have been told had something in common, other than the place they lived in. It was the way their focus shifted from one trouble to another. They never privileged themselves with brooding over their tragedies. Once the tragedy was done with them, they were done with it. Every moment brought in a fresh set of requirements and they, free from the baggage of the past, set out in the pursuit of their immediate need. It was very clear from their behavior that this was the guard they had developed to survive. Their unfazed determination to make life a little better, their undaunting hope that the so called economic booms will bring in better times, hope that the tide will turn in their favor one day, clearly underlines, resilience, the most prime quality for the survival of the fittest.

Secondly, it is the way the book is written. It is not over dramatic. No exaggerated tragedies or saccharine jubilation.  It is plain, simple like something we see around  and dont take notice of. It is subtle, like a life  unfolding slowly without grandeur, without over emphasis on anything. It strikes the right note by just being simple.

Thirdly, as it is a contemporary nonfiction, we can very well see  and understand the situations that affect their lives. Like the other day, as I had just finished reading this book, my attention was driven to a headline in the newspaper in which Maharastra Nav Nirman Sena had announced about illegal immigrant based issue.

At the end of it, all i could conclude was in this life, all we have is hope. Hope, that things would get better and if they get worse, it is for the better. And hope is something we should never get over with and may be can never get over with.

Annawadians remind me of this famous bollywood track, "Gaadi bhula rahi hai, seeti baja rahi hai, chalna hi zindagi hai, chalti hi jaa rahi hai".

Well the book undoubtedly makes a very good read as it is not overloaded with opinions and lets you form your own.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

May being vulnerable be your strength.

I absolutely loved the topic. This is a video on how being vulnerable can be your strength.

http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html


Well was checking out a few quotes on good reads when I found this one, which I could very well connect to the video in the link.
It says, "Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you feel so vulnerable. It opens your chest and opens up your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up".

No doubt we all want to be loved, taken care of but we dont want to be vulnerable. We fabricate. We are obsessed with perfectionism. How horrible is it to let the other person know I cant do this or that? Well, all I want to do is to create a good impression.In all these entangled stuff, are the impressions we are creating rebounding and reshaping us? Are we really happy being what we are not, just because its considered the norm. Are we putting on a facade because otherwise we would be considered a failure as per the contemporary standards?
Somewhere down the line we are giving up the less travelled path and choosing the well treaded path.
We fear to soar to the skies that were meant for us, the skies which were limitless.
We fear to open our hearts and and show that we too have a can worms in there because we fear the other person may not like it. But remember if somebody cannot take you with your flaws, and leaves, good for you , your being yourself is helping you filter out the people you never want to be with.
But there is no doubt that one fine day, you will come across a lot of people with their own can of worms and who will be willingly showcasing it. Life would be secure then cause you will have the freedom to be yourself and you will live with the knowledge that are loved the way you are, minus fabrication.
So what are you waiting for go for it, FLAUNT YOUR FLAWS.