Monday, November 5, 2012

Best book dedication quote I have come across till date

“Grow strong, my comrade … that you may stand
Unshaken when I fall; that I may know
the shattered fragments of my song will come
at last to finer melody in you;
That I may tell my heart that you begin
where passing I leave off, and fathom more.
”
—Will Durant, under the dedication of The Story of Philosophy to his wife

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Behind the beautiful forevers -Katherine Boo



The well deserved winner of the Pulitzer prize, this account of non-fiction written by Katherine Boo unfolds the story of a slum named Annawadi. Situated in the vicinity of the Sahara International Airport, it has long been an eyesore to the promoters of globalization. Riding on the winds of uncertainty, Annawadi still hangs on to hope as its refuge.

Coming back to the book, which won the accolades of the literary elite, it captures in its pages the lives of the Annawadians and baggage of hopes they carry on their shoulders(in direct proportion with baggage of garbage carried). It is an account of people whose necessities boil down to basics, who literally live behind the beautiful forevers.

The first thing that caught me about the book was its title. Behind the walls painted beautiful forevers, life still flourishes under the casted dark shadows. Now lets go on with lightening streaks in the account.

Resilience is the first thing you will notice as you get to know the characters. It was the nature of the people. Almost all the people whose stories have been told had something in common, other than the place they lived in. It was the way their focus shifted from one trouble to another. They never privileged themselves with brooding over their tragedies. Once the tragedy was done with them, they were done with it. Every moment brought in a fresh set of requirements and they, free from the baggage of the past, set out in the pursuit of their immediate need. It was very clear from their behavior that this was the guard they had developed to survive. Their unfazed determination to make life a little better, their undaunting hope that the so called economic booms will bring in better times, hope that the tide will turn in their favor one day, clearly underlines, resilience, the most prime quality for the survival of the fittest.

Secondly, it is the way the book is written. It is not over dramatic. No exaggerated tragedies or saccharine jubilation.  It is plain, simple like something we see around  and dont take notice of. It is subtle, like a life  unfolding slowly without grandeur, without over emphasis on anything. It strikes the right note by just being simple.

Thirdly, as it is a contemporary nonfiction, we can very well see  and understand the situations that affect their lives. Like the other day, as I had just finished reading this book, my attention was driven to a headline in the newspaper in which Maharastra Nav Nirman Sena had announced about illegal immigrant based issue.

At the end of it, all i could conclude was in this life, all we have is hope. Hope, that things would get better and if they get worse, it is for the better. And hope is something we should never get over with and may be can never get over with.

Annawadians remind me of this famous bollywood track, "Gaadi bhula rahi hai, seeti baja rahi hai, chalna hi zindagi hai, chalti hi jaa rahi hai".

Well the book undoubtedly makes a very good read as it is not overloaded with opinions and lets you form your own.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

May being vulnerable be your strength.

I absolutely loved the topic. This is a video on how being vulnerable can be your strength.

http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html


Well was checking out a few quotes on good reads when I found this one, which I could very well connect to the video in the link.
It says, "Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you feel so vulnerable. It opens your chest and opens up your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up".

No doubt we all want to be loved, taken care of but we dont want to be vulnerable. We fabricate. We are obsessed with perfectionism. How horrible is it to let the other person know I cant do this or that? Well, all I want to do is to create a good impression.In all these entangled stuff, are the impressions we are creating rebounding and reshaping us? Are we really happy being what we are not, just because its considered the norm. Are we putting on a facade because otherwise we would be considered a failure as per the contemporary standards?
Somewhere down the line we are giving up the less travelled path and choosing the well treaded path.
We fear to soar to the skies that were meant for us, the skies which were limitless.
We fear to open our hearts and and show that we too have a can worms in there because we fear the other person may not like it. But remember if somebody cannot take you with your flaws, and leaves, good for you , your being yourself is helping you filter out the people you never want to be with.
But there is no doubt that one fine day, you will come across a lot of people with their own can of worms and who will be willingly showcasing it. Life would be secure then cause you will have the freedom to be yourself and you will live with the knowledge that are loved the way you are, minus fabrication.
So what are you waiting for go for it, FLAUNT YOUR FLAWS.

Monday, July 30, 2012

Quotes of candid Wilde:)

An excellent man; he has no enemies; and none of his friends like him.(That was Wilde on George Bernard Shaw)


An idea that is not dangerous is unworthy of being called an idea at all.


All bad poetry springs from genuine feeling.


Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.


A thing is not necessarily true because a man dies for it.


A poet can survive anything but a misprint.


A man's face is his autobiography. A woman's is her work of fiction. (hmmm... gifted :P )


A gentlemen is one who never hurts anyone's feeling unintentionally.(This lot is far from extinction:)s)


Deceiving others. That is what the world calls romance. (Hello!!!Is this heaven?? I am mortal speaking from the land of mortals. Could you kindly connect me to Mr.Gibran. I need his say on the matter!!!)


Education is an admirable thing, it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught.( Great!!! We called this sporadic reminding ritual BUNKING :P)


Do you really think it is weakness that yields to temptation. I tell you there are terrible temptations which it requires courage, courage and strength to yield to.









Sunday, July 29, 2012

Dear Parent, are you doing it right?

A very insightful article on contemporary parenting.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/29/books/review/teach-your-children-well-by-madeline-levine.html?pagewanted=1&ref=general&src=me


Life I believe is everbody's forte but in its own way. Do we have the courage to follow our dreams? is the question we have find an answer now.

Monday, July 16, 2012

Rishton ka bazaar...



Humsafar the tum, humnava na ban paaye
Mere dil ke dard ka dava na ban paaye
Sapne bahut the lekin haqeeqat na ban paaye
Haqeeqat to tum the lekin chaahat na ban paaye
Har taraf the dukh ke saaye
Kabhi hum rokar bhi muskuraaye
Kehte hai barson ki wafa se rishten hai bante.
Lekin aaj jaana rishte dehej ke bazaaron mein hai bikte..

Mein jeeyungi..

Zindagi itni berehem hai kyun?
Aasun aankhon se barastha hai kyun?
Har khushi ke peeche gham hota hai kyun?
Har subah ke baad andhera chaa jata hai kyun?
Hakeekat toh hamesha kadvi hoti hai kyun?
Har muskaan ke bheethar aasun hai kyun?

Is kyun kyun ke jhanjat mein kho gayi hoon main.
Zindagi ke kaante dekh dar gayi hoom main.
Kya main kar paaoongi iska saamna?
Saath na dega mera yeh zamaana.
Duniya hai mujhse anjaan.
Dhoondthi hoon yaha par apni pehchaan.
Sochti hoon kabhi mein hoon nadaan.
Par saamne hai koi toofaan.

Tootne laga mera hosla
Toh kahi se achanak ek awaaz khili
Are tu toh hai baawli.
Zindagi toh hai ek kali
Jo bhagwaan se hume hai mili
Tume har halat mein hai aage badna
Har waqt saphalta ki seedi hai chadna.
Zindagi ko hai phool bankar hai mehekna.
Man ko bhi titli ke jaise hai udna.

Isi liye, mujhe tumhe hum sab ko hai jeena
Manzil kuch bhi ho use hai paana
Duniya mein apna ek pechaan banana.
Mein jeeyungi...
Aur aise ke dukh haar jaayenge!!