Sunday, December 30, 2012

A tale of love

The sand on the seashore, sits like a snow white.
Waiting for her prince charming to come and hug her tight.
Waving at her, with his arms wide open there comes her knight,
Embracing her, he tenderly whispers in her ears, I will be back love, take care, alright.

As he retreats, he takes her with him.
Towards him, remains fixed her gaze
Towards her, is always his race
Ah!! what a tale of love,
They meet, they depart, but they reign each others heart.


Saturday, December 29, 2012

The daisy that bloomed..


Once upon a time, there was a a daisy plant. As it was the flowering season, there were two buds in the plant. They had survived the garden owner's year old son's plucking attempts. They spoke to each other of the notorious huge one who only smiled and sometimes wailed. "Oh, dear lord," they said, "why did have to put us here, if we had a monster to fear. Living is tough, when the physically stronger beings are rough."


In a day, they had tiny in size but major trouble. The latter monster didn't pluck but gradually ate into the one of the buds. The bud wailed in pain. Only the other bud would understand the language . She couldnt help. She said, "Be strong. I will offer you my prayers. Oh holy lord, why did you have to put her through this. She is such a little miss." As an answer the to her prayers, the garden owner sprayed pesticides the next day. They smelt caustic. They little nostrils were overwhelmed. But life is far more important than a feeling. They endured with grace. But the garden owners  attempt was not quick enough to save the bud. She dried and died a slow death. However the pest was dead as well.

The other bud all alone now. She cried her sorrows, wiped her own tears. Pledged she would not bloom, for the lord had made her all alone. She didn't see a meaning in  her life. For the deceased bud was her only mate and now she had lost her too. Nobody understood her now. She had no peers to share her fears. She wished the huge monster would pluck her and end her misery. But time and tide waits for none. Her petals grew bigger that they couldn't hold themselves. They had to break free. The innocent petals then bloomed and opened themselves to theinfinite  world. The bud told," oh dear lord, you are being so unfair, for my will you never care, I have had enough of your goodness share".

She suddenly heard somebody talk. She had never heard anything but unintelligible human nuisance since her friend departed. But today she heard a rather sweet voice that blended itself in the breeze that blew. Yet it was strong, strong enough to reach her. Mild enough to touch her heart. She fell in love with the bee. He spoke to her in her own tongue. She had finally diverted from her sorrows to the the world of magic. Life is no wonder a delicious ambiguity. The next day, she hoped that the huge monster didn't appear to ruin her petals. She prayed " oh dear lord, forgive me for I doubted you, for everything you take there is much more you give."  She heard the hum of her beloved and there she was on cloud nine, because he had come, the one spoke her tongue, the one who told her the world was a beautiful place though she had found herown reason to think it was.


He told her of his floral flights, of more beautiful flowers which made her jealous. But he seemed normal when he spoke of them. He never spoke of them woth special interest. This made her feel better but neither did he pay her special atention.  She observed he did his job with a detachment.It was his job as it was hers to bloom. They each had a task. Their tasks were complimentary. They were meant to meet for a reason.

She had heard from him that they together as a team create many flowers like her own. Their task was of higher purpose than their individual tasks. They were the link in the design of the creator. There in his words she realized what she was honored with. She was honored with the best gift the creator could bestow on anybody. She was honored with life. She was honored with a opportunity to change. To create beautiful gardens she may never be able to see. To curve the lips of millions into beautiful smiles she may never interpret. To be at occasions which celebrate, which mourn, beyond caste, creed, nationalities. She was honored to be a daisy. Then onwards everyday she kept head high, breathed her lungs full, smiled till her cheeks ached spreading her petals, opened herself to the sun that shined, for now she had known her reason, her reason to bloom.
And when she left, this was all she had to offer to the generation next.
Her life's experience was packed into the words,
" Fear not when life doesn't turnout the way you plan. Because all I have known is he has better plans than I have coz he is a magnificent planner than I am. "

Monday, November 5, 2012

Best book dedication quote I have come across till date

Grow strong, my comrade … that you may stand
Unshaken when I fall; that I may know
the shattered fragments of my song will come
at last to finer melody in you;
That I may tell my heart that you begin
where passing I leave off, and fathom more.

Will Durant, under the dedication of The Story of Philosophy to his wife

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Behind the beautiful forevers -Katherine Boo



The well deserved winner of the Pulitzer prize, this account of non-fiction written by Katherine Boo unfolds the story of a slum named Annawadi. Situated in the vicinity of the Sahara International Airport, it has long been an eyesore to the promoters of globalization. Riding on the winds of uncertainty, Annawadi still hangs on to hope as its refuge.

Coming back to the book, which won the accolades of the literary elite, it captures in its pages the lives of the Annawadians and baggage of hopes they carry on their shoulders(in direct proportion with baggage of garbage carried). It is an account of people whose necessities boil down to basics, who literally live behind the beautiful forevers.

The first thing that caught me about the book was its title. Behind the walls painted beautiful forevers, life still flourishes under the casted dark shadows. Now lets go on with lightening streaks in the account.

Resilience is the first thing you will notice as you get to know the characters. It was the nature of the people. Almost all the people whose stories have been told had something in common, other than the place they lived in. It was the way their focus shifted from one trouble to another. They never privileged themselves with brooding over their tragedies. Once the tragedy was done with them, they were done with it. Every moment brought in a fresh set of requirements and they, free from the baggage of the past, set out in the pursuit of their immediate need. It was very clear from their behavior that this was the guard they had developed to survive. Their unfazed determination to make life a little better, their undaunting hope that the so called economic booms will bring in better times, hope that the tide will turn in their favor one day, clearly underlines, resilience, the most prime quality for the survival of the fittest.

Secondly, it is the way the book is written. It is not over dramatic. No exaggerated tragedies or saccharine jubilation.  It is plain, simple like something we see around  and dont take notice of. It is subtle, like a life  unfolding slowly without grandeur, without over emphasis on anything. It strikes the right note by just being simple.

Thirdly, as it is a contemporary nonfiction, we can very well see  and understand the situations that affect their lives. Like the other day, as I had just finished reading this book, my attention was driven to a headline in the newspaper in which Maharastra Nav Nirman Sena had announced about illegal immigrant based issue.

At the end of it, all i could conclude was in this life, all we have is hope. Hope, that things would get better and if they get worse, it is for the better. And hope is something we should never get over with and may be can never get over with.

Annawadians remind me of this famous bollywood track, "Gaadi bhula rahi hai, seeti baja rahi hai, chalna hi zindagi hai, chalti hi jaa rahi hai".

Well the book undoubtedly makes a very good read as it is not overloaded with opinions and lets you form your own.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

May being vulnerable be your strength.

I absolutely loved the topic. This is a video on how being vulnerable can be your strength.

http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html


Well was checking out a few quotes on good reads when I found this one, which I could very well connect to the video in the link.
It says, "Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you feel so vulnerable. It opens your chest and opens up your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up".

No doubt we all want to be loved, taken care of but we dont want to be vulnerable. We fabricate. We are obsessed with perfectionism. How horrible is it to let the other person know I cant do this or that? Well, all I want to do is to create a good impression.In all these entangled stuff, are the impressions we are creating rebounding and reshaping us? Are we really happy being what we are not, just because its considered the norm. Are we putting on a facade because otherwise we would be considered a failure as per the contemporary standards?
Somewhere down the line we are giving up the less travelled path and choosing the well treaded path.
We fear to soar to the skies that were meant for us, the skies which were limitless.
We fear to open our hearts and and show that we too have a can worms in there because we fear the other person may not like it. But remember if somebody cannot take you with your flaws, and leaves, good for you , your being yourself is helping you filter out the people you never want to be with.
But there is no doubt that one fine day, you will come across a lot of people with their own can of worms and who will be willingly showcasing it. Life would be secure then cause you will have the freedom to be yourself and you will live with the knowledge that are loved the way you are, minus fabrication.
So what are you waiting for go for it, FLAUNT YOUR FLAWS.

Monday, July 30, 2012

Quotes of candid Wilde:)

An excellent man; he has no enemies; and none of his friends like him.(That was Wilde on George Bernard Shaw)


An idea that is not dangerous is unworthy of being called an idea at all.


All bad poetry springs from genuine feeling.


Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.


A thing is not necessarily true because a man dies for it.


A poet can survive anything but a misprint.


A man's face is his autobiography. A woman's is her work of fiction. (hmmm... gifted :P )


A gentlemen is one who never hurts anyone's feeling unintentionally.(This lot is far from extinction:)s)


Deceiving others. That is what the world calls romance. (Hello!!!Is this heaven?? I am mortal speaking from the land of mortals. Could you kindly connect me to Mr.Gibran. I need his say on the matter!!!)


Education is an admirable thing, it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught.( Great!!! We called this sporadic reminding ritual BUNKING :P)


Do you really think it is weakness that yields to temptation. I tell you there are terrible temptations which it requires courage, courage and strength to yield to.









Sunday, July 29, 2012

Dear Parent, are you doing it right?

A very insightful article on contemporary parenting.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/29/books/review/teach-your-children-well-by-madeline-levine.html?pagewanted=1&ref=general&src=me


Life I believe is everbody's forte but in its own way. Do we have the courage to follow our dreams? is the question we have find an answer now.

Monday, July 16, 2012

Rishton ka bazaar...



Humsafar the tum, humnava na ban paaye
Mere dil ke dard ka dava na ban paaye
Sapne bahut the lekin haqeeqat na ban paaye
Haqeeqat to tum the lekin chaahat na ban paaye
Har taraf the dukh ke saaye
Kabhi hum rokar bhi muskuraaye
Kehte hai barson ki wafa se rishten hai bante.
Lekin aaj jaana rishte dehej ke bazaaron mein hai bikte..

Mein jeeyungi..

Zindagi itni berehem hai kyun?
Aasun aankhon se barastha hai kyun?
Har khushi ke peeche gham hota hai kyun?
Har subah ke baad andhera chaa jata hai kyun?
Hakeekat toh hamesha kadvi hoti hai kyun?
Har muskaan ke bheethar aasun hai kyun?

Is kyun kyun ke jhanjat mein kho gayi hoon main.
Zindagi ke kaante dekh dar gayi hoom main.
Kya main kar paaoongi iska saamna?
Saath na dega mera yeh zamaana.
Duniya hai mujhse anjaan.
Dhoondthi hoon yaha par apni pehchaan.
Sochti hoon kabhi mein hoon nadaan.
Par saamne hai koi toofaan.

Tootne laga mera hosla
Toh kahi se achanak ek awaaz khili
Are tu toh hai baawli.
Zindagi toh hai ek kali
Jo bhagwaan se hume hai mili
Tume har halat mein hai aage badna
Har waqt saphalta ki seedi hai chadna.
Zindagi ko hai phool bankar hai mehekna.
Man ko bhi titli ke jaise hai udna.

Isi liye, mujhe tumhe hum sab ko hai jeena
Manzil kuch bhi ho use hai paana
Duniya mein apna ek pechaan banana.
Mein jeeyungi...
Aur aise ke dukh haar jaayenge!!

A thought

Love, I beleive is based on a few convincing moments, the power of whose conviction, lasts for a lifetime.

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Hum insaan hai..


Jaante hai zindagi aasaan nahin

Raahe lambi hai inme chalte kadam thak jaayenge
Andhere ghane hai
Aasha ke kiran dhoondte hosle dhagmagaa jaayenge
Mumkin hai jis manzil ki aas lekar chale woh nazron se door ho jaye
Girne par shayad humaare kadam na sambhal paaye
Hum insaan hai seene mein dil aur dil mein aas rakte hain.

Lekin yeh haalat bhi kam hai hamaare jazbe ko thodne ke liye
Woh jazba jo hume har baar yaad dilata hai ki hum jiye hai apni manzil paane ke liye
Lambe raahon se hum na thakenge
Ghane andheron se hum na darenge
Hume bas apni zindagi jeena hai aur hum jeeyenge.
Hum insaan hai seene mein dhadakta dil aur dil mein hosla rakte hain.

                                                        Hum kaanton ke beech phoolon ki tarah khilenge
                                                        Hazaaron ghamon ke peeche chupi us khushi ke liye hum jeeyenge.
                                                        Raah chalte thake logon ka sahara banenge
                                                        Hum haar kar jeetna seekenge.
                                                      Hum insaan hai seene main dhadakta dil aur dil mein insaaniyat rakte hain.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Hamaari Zindagi.....



Kya hua agar haathon main hain bhoj,
Aankhon mein sapne hai aur apni manzil ki hain hume khoj.
Kismat se hume nahin koi gila,
Ki usne nahin diya hume paisa ya bangla.
Hume toh har baar aise anmol zindagi mile,
Jisme khusiyaan aur gamon ke ho silsiley.

Kya hua agar hum nahin ek ameer baap ke aullaad,
Hamaari zindagi mein toh hai ehsaason ka swaad.
Pyaar aur bharose se hai hamaari duniya abaad.

Ameeron ki daulat ko toh chor hai loot the,
Lekin hamaari daulat ko kaun loote jo hamaare dil mein hai.
Maa ke loriyon ke ghazal mein hai,
Khwaabon se bhare hamaare aane waale kal mein hai.

Zindagi hai hamaare liye,
Aur rab hai hamaare saath.
Hum toh bas yeh ummeed hai karte,
Hamaare kal mein khusiyaan hamaari raah hai johte,
Hume toh bas raat dhalne ka intezaar hai.
Khud pe hume etbaar hai.

Bikhre Kwaabhon ko sametkar ek khwaab saja lenge, un rishton ke waaste..

Aaj laashon ki dher hai jaha par,
Kal basta tha hamaara sapna vaha par.
Ab aakir hum jaaye kahaan,
Lut gaya hamara toh saara jahaan.

Pal bhar mein hi zindagi badal gayi,
Suraj ki roshni ke saamne hi hamaari zindagiyon mein andhera chaa gayi.
Aankon ke saamne apne bichad gaye,
Palbar mein hi duniya ujad gaye.
Ab hum kiske sahare jiye,
Buj gaye hai ummeed ke diye.

Logon ne ise dardnaak haadsa kaha,
Kuch ne insaaniyat ke naam par humdardi jataaya.
Bina mehsooz kiye ki humne kya saha,
Ateet ko bhula dene ko bataya.
Lekin kaise bhula de hum un nazaaron ko,
Palbar mein hi jab lehere uta ke le gayi hamaare apno aur yaaron ko.
Jab maut ne apne aagosh mein sabhi ko sulaaya,
Usne hume hi kyun bhulaya.
Zindagi mein bhi hoti hai maut ka saaya,
Jab har koyi lage ajnabi aur paraya.

Phir bhi un rishton ke waaste hume hai jeena,
Jinhone humaare liye ek kar diya tha khoon pasina.
Jin aankhon mein humaari zindagi ke the sapne,
Maana aaj nazar na aaye woh apne.
Unke sapne hamaare dil mein mehfuuz hai,
Jo hamaare liye sabse khaaz hai.

Inke waaste...
Hum maut ke beech zindagi talaash lenge.


Yeh waada hai hamaara un rishton se,
Jho kabhi humse jude the aur hamesha jude rahenge.
Unke sapnon ko karne  saakar hum har muskil se ladenge.

Apne chale jaate waqt, jeene ki aas de gaye.
Rooti zindagi ko manakar hum bhi jeena seekh gaye,
Un rishton ke waaste.......

Well, this was a poem I wrote during the 2004 Tsunami that devastated the coasts of Indonesia, SriLanka, India and Thailand(in the order of the devastation caused). Unsettled millions. But I always wonder is it Nature's way of reminding us how miniscule we are or is it a mother nudging her child and telling him I have created the ashes, now rise from it gracefully my Phoenix. You have all it takes:) Remember it:)

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Crowd Dynamics

The link that follows is a very good article on Crowd Dynamics:

Crowd dynamics: The wisdom of crowds | The Economist

Interesting:-)

Olive ridley





  Here is the link to an article on the olive Ridleys published in the Fauna & Flora International:
                                  Olive ridley turtle | Fauna & Flora International
         The link that follows is a very informative link that was published in The Hindu:                               The Hindu : Magazine / Environment : When the turtles come ashore.


The rightful inheritors of earth: their inheritence..

Well, recently I came across an article in The Caravan, on the olive ridleys. The article was on the conservation efforts made by a group of people, on the beaches of Tamilnadu, where these turtles come together as group for the arribada(That is the females return to the shores they were hatched and lumber onshore,sometimes in the thousands,to nest.). What is worrying is that, the population of the olive Ridleys, that are considered to be one of the abundant turtle species, is decreasing substantially. The reasons are numerous. Changing habitats , stealing eggs, nesting females slaughtered for their skin and meat and the list goes on.

This however, as all of us know, is not a single case of proof, of how we, the so called crown of creation, have been tampering with the rights of the rightful inheritors of the earth. Well, it is certain  they can't voice their concerns, and we are not used to unspoken words. But the need of the hour is that, we being the rational creatures(at least for the sake of having enjoyed the credit for soo long), should take the initiative to decrypt the silent glances of the owners, of the lands we have trespassed. So the first step in this regard, would be knowing something more about the endangered species.

So, it goes without saying that the next few articles would be on few of the endangered species, and may be, on how we can do our bit, in redeeming the rights of the rightful inheritors of the earth.

Let the boundaries be drawn, and may harmony be the word of the world, of the man and the beast.

Monday, March 26, 2012

Insaan???

Har taraf dikta hai kaanta nafrat ka..
Kaha gaya woh phool mohabbbat ka..
Dikhte hai har taraf dukh ke baadal..
Khushi ke sitaare hai ojhal..
Ghum hai shanti ka phool..
In sabko apne garbh mein leke daud raha kai kaal..

Badal raha hai insaan..
Banta jaa raha hai haiwaan..
Kaha gaya woh insaaniyat ka roop..
Banta ja raha hai va din ba din kuroop..

Muskaan


Mere aas paas bahut se log muskuraate hai.
Kabhi haanste hai kabhi doosron ko haansate hai.
lekin lagta hai sab dhong karte hai.
Dil mein aansoo chupakar duniya ke liye woh haanste hai

Kisi ki muskaan mein chaal hai
Toh kisi mein uska bura haal hai
Lekin dhoonti hoon us muskaan ko joh nikli ho us masoom

aur nadaan dil se
Jise dekh
phike rang mein chadta gulal sa lage..
Khushiyon ki jhoomti bahaar sa lage..
Murjaate phool bhi khilna chaahe..
Aasma bhi zameen se milna chahe..
Jise dekne taras jaye nigaahe..
Kya hogi aisi muskaan???
Bacha hai kya is duniya mein aisa koi nadaan?

AfterLife :What is it like to be dead??

Whenever I think of life after death, a thought haunts me.And I then sit down and think, what if it was this way??
Well then finally I thought it would be a better idea to share it and look at it from different perspectives.So here it goes.....

What is it like to be dead, for the dead.May be dying meant being unconsciously  transported to the world that is exactly as the one we are in.Well, like a replica of our own little worlds, with family,friends,pets and our home.May be that is why the dead never came back because they didnot have the slightest clue that they were dead.May be they didnot return because the
life after death was exactly same as the life before it.

Innocent thought:)

When I was a kid, most of my evenings used to be on the seashore, watching the sun melting like an icecream into the blue waters.I used to wonder, how slowly the water ate into the sun, just like the water splashed on the ember.Then when it was dusk, I used to run back home and, it was during one of this sprinting back home sessions I figured out, that I was not alone.There was somebody, following me.The moon.I thought he did that only to me, and never told any of my friends about it.I thought, it was our secret.It was such a good time, you were never alone.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Man's Search For Meaning - Viktor.E.Frankl


Well, my first book review:)Of all the books that I have read, I have chosen this one to be the book on which I will write a review because this is very special. By the time I had finished it,I felt I was very different person than the one who had picked it up.
Yeah, there are numerous facts, precise details, stories we know about the atrocities caused by the World War 2.But hearing it from a man, who is a psychologist himself and who had been there, went through all the horrible things we have heard of, is not very usual.

Actually, Man's Search For Meaning is a psychologist's memoirs of the atrocities meted out on the Jews, in the concentration camps during the World War 2. It was one of the books the sir at my CAT classes had asked us to read in order to improve our understanding in a wide variety of subjects, improve your vocabulary and anything and everything that results in the betterment of your English. I had bought it a long back and it took me a year and a half to actually sit down and start reading.(Oh no I am not one lazy thing, the book had such a boring cover page I dozed off the instant I saw it :))

Getting back to the book it had lots of sad facts(of the kind which makes people twitch their faces and say "how horrible!!!!!!!!!!!!!"). It begins with horrifying facts of dilapidated people being gassed, as no work could anymore be squeezed out of them, inmates being tortured by the capos(This actually reminds me of a situation from Amitav Gosh's "The Glass Palace",where one of the characters thinks "How do you fight an enemy who fights from neither anger nor enmity, but in submission to orders from superiors, without protest and without conscience?". I wonder if this thought ever crossed the minds of the inmates as they survived the torture of the capos.)

There are a lot of circumstances, which are even difficult to conceive as thoughts, that they had to go through. They lost their names, they were mere numbers that were stitched to their shirts. And it might be such an insecure feeling when a capo annoyed with something stared down at their number making a mental note of it.Well the more I think of putting myself in their shoes ,the harder it gets because I cannot imagine how  would  it be to lose it all, all you have had, all you have planned, all the dreams that you nourished with your actions, all that pride, your profession and most importantly your family . They are all gone in a second, like they never existed. Well I suppose that was how it was. They were stripped to the core. Nothing was left, except for you and the damn thing that still was called life(of course minus all things that made it a life ).As the author quotes in one of the occasions"With the end of an uncertainty there came the uncertainty of the end, " life of the inmates seemed to be mired in uncertainties.They were like, a gazillion questions that popped up in their minds, and died premature deaths in the void of their lives. 

But with the beast comes the beauty:) In all these unfair, unjust circumstances, there were people who like phoenixes rose from the ugliness surrounding them, and lived their life their way. They proved that the man's liberty to choose his behavior, in any set of circumstances, cannot be taken away. His innermost freedom cannot be taken away.These were the people who shared their meagre rations of bread with others in the same place, where cannibalism had broken out. They set the standards of humans higher, much above the reach of the dividing factors that seemed to reign the thoughts of few minds.(and unfortunately of the ones in power). Well, there are instances where, people remember their loved ones and think that there is still something to hold onto, is beautiful. The author himself acknowledges the fact that, under those grave circumstances he realised that, "Love is the ultimate goal man can aspire to". Well, there are moments where insignificant events turned out to be funny, there were friendships that flourished, there were sympathetic capos, they was hope that life would go back to normal (the good old days)and there were efforts, very sincere efforts, to hold on to dear life.They yearned for the little things in life.They just wanted to go back, run their daily errands.

What is really heartbreaking is, the period following the liberation. The liberated inmates had to come to terms with a lot of things. The reasons they had to cling to life did not exist like, there was no family that awaited them. All the hopes were shattered like sand castle leaving no traces behind, not even a grain of sand. But in the mean time this concentration camp was the place, where the idea of finding meaning in life was conceived by Mr.Frankl. Initially, it started by telling the inmates that there was a lot in life to hold on to, like a loved one, a dream to be fulfilled and things like that, which can make our life a little more meaningful. This practice is now called logotherapy("logos" means meaning thus logotherapy is meaning therapy). It is practiced widely, and considered to be one of the greatest works in psychology after Sigmund Freud. When the basic principle remains the same, where in which a person is made aware of all those things in his life, that adds meaning to it. And once an individual discovers the meaning, he never lets it go.

Well this book was like a case study, where as you proceed, you get to know the basic mindset of humans, or to put it in layman's terms, it tells you what stuff you are made of. At the end of it, I felt like all the while I have been staring at a circle divided into two halves, a brighter and a darker(revealing the best and the worst of human natures) and only with a combination of these, the circle becomes a whole. So it is up to us, to shoulder the responsibility of being human, and more importantly, decide which is the legacy we want to carry forward, the brighter or the darker??

And about the book go buy it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!